Although it sounds like a popular lower back tattoo, the venus butterfly is actually the name of a sex toyanda sex move. Here’s how to break it down.
Venus butterfly refers to a sex act that involves both oral stimulation of the external genitalia (cunnilingus) and manual stimulation with the fingers (fingering) simultaneously. The venus butterfly appeared in an episode ofL.A. Law(see below), and has been described with slightly different techniques in various sex ed books since the late ‘60s. It’s been called a tantric sex practice because it advocates slowing down, but Barbara Carrellas, a life coach, sex educator, and the author or , says it’s not officially part of tantra.
The is also a type of external vibrator that fits over the vulva and clitoris. It’s meant to be hands-free, and is attached by two elastic straps that fit over the legs.
To try the venus butterfly move, Mona Wales, porn performer and professional dominatrix, has a couple recommendations. “To pull off this sex move to its full effect, the middle finger and the ring finger should be used to stimulate internally. The internal fingers should be curved in a hook position.” Then she suggests putting your outside thumb, ring and pinky finger on either side of the vulva, which causes the clit to slightly protrude from the hood. With the clit exposed in this way, you are now free to go to town orally while you digitally stimulate your lover from the inside. Wales notes, “This move is great for people that cannot come from oral sex alone.”
If you’re referring to the toy, here’s a tip: The vibratory movement of the venus butterfly toy sometimes causes it to slip off the clitoris, providing indirect stimulation, which can be a pro or con, depending on how you like your vibes. Sexologist Carol Queen, PhD, recommends putting on a tighter pair of underwear over the vibrator to help hold it more firmly in place if you don’t want your butterfly to fly away.
Venus Butterfly in Popular Culture:
The venus butterfly (the act) had quite a moment in the ‘80s. On an episode ofL.A. Law, it was used as a plot device where a very average-looking male character had a secret sex move (which was never described) called the venus butterfly, which made women flock to him.
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